Friends this is my new bible study. Before I start the bible study this is only a road map to getting back on track with God. I made a lot of little mistakes in my marriage. I don’t know what went on in your marriage before your divorce. I do pray for healing. I know it causes a lot of heartache and pain. It made me just want to die!
I thought about getting a bottle of whiskey and drinking till death. I didn’t pick up the bottle like before because of not finding a job. I did join a dating websites. I wanted a beautiful woman call me cute and nice. I thought something was wrong with me! Why I am about to be divorce? I have been faithful to my wife and gave her whatever she needed.
I payed for her master degree for college! We had a big house and nice SUV. Everyone said they thought we were doing well together. The sad fact there’re a lot marriages like ours out there. My goal is to keep you from getting to the point of divorce. We know God hates divorce! God doesn’t hate divorce people only the breaking up of the marriage. I want you to read ( Mark 10:8-9).
I hate to say that in our marriage personally I never became one. I was always the two instead of one and didn’t know it. My wife and I never had any real fights. The enemy knew he couldn’t get to me. The enemy went after my marriage and won. Satan was there the whole time and didn’t even see it. ( 1 Peter 5:8). I didn’t communicate very well with my wife.
These are some facts to help you in your marriage.
1. There has to be a line of communication.
2. Your mate needs to know you rock their world!
3. You can tell them you love them all day long but you have to show them.
4. Both of you have to look for ways to show kindness , caring and love daily. Even on the bad days when you are not wanting to be nice.
5. There has to be support from one another. For years as men we thought this was the wife job to do house work. Washing dishes, washing clothes and cleaning the bathroom. Brother you can do it now or by yourself later. Your Marriage is a partnership.
6. You have to trust and share how you are feeling with your spouse. It’s hard to do guys but our wives need to see us cry. Guys when your hurting and in pain let your wife know so she can pray for you. We as guys are taught to show no emotions! In over 7 years of marriage my wife saw me cry once. That was the day my wife told me she was unhappy with our marriage.
7. You have to keep your marriage exciting. Writing poems. Do the little things for each other. Being thoughtful and caring about each other needs. You need two bank accounts. Meaning your wife needs money for woman maintenance. She needs to be able to buy a nice beautiful dress that she looks awesome in. Guys women love to shop. Buy clothes! For stay at home mom’s they need that money to know they are making a difference in the Family. As men you can never pay your wife enough money all she does for you.
8. In case you have kids you need to know your wife loves her kids but she needs some alone time.
9. God should be number 1 in your life. Your wife should be number two. Remember guys women are a blessing from God. Never let anything keep your spouse from being number two in your life. When we as men forget about the blessing of women we lose the blessing of women. As men our women need to see us as God Faithful fearing men.
10. A husband and wife have to pray together. Both husband and wife need their own quiet time with the Lord. Talk about what God showed you through his word.
I want to end the bible study here will start with part 1 later. I am doing a bible from my old website. I am looking at the pages printed backward. God has a reason for everything in life. I have 865 Friends now. I may comment on your post or never get to your posts. I care and Love about each one of you as a ( Person) because of God Love and Jesus Christ living in my heart. Every Christian in Body of Christ should feel the same way. Divorce is hard on everyone . I pray for healing in our marriage . I am on my second marriage now. It’s a full time job and marriage isn’t easy.
Jesus is coming to get his bride on day. The church is Jesus bride. Are you ready? Have you got a relationship with Jesus Christ? I recently just heard a store in our area. Where they gave invitation at a football field. They were asking the kids to fill out cards. They just got saved . They had 700 cards. How many souls believe they got saved that day. I think they was so many kids there they just followed each other because it was so many kids there. My understanding there was no really one leading someone to Jesus Christ. Everyone needs to know there a sinner can’t saved their self. Jesus Christ is that Saviour. The Holy Spirit will make your heart beat fast you can’t wait to ask God to save you. There are sinners and sinners saved by Grace. Father I pray right now out of 865 friends you would touch each one of their hearts and lives. Meet their needs. I pray that today many would accept your Son Jesus Christ has their Lord and Saviour of their life.
I want to leave a sinners pray to pray. You can have your on pray.
Lord Jesus :
I realize I am a sinner can’t save myself. I believe Jesus you died on the cross for my sins and arose from the dead. Jesus forgive me of my sins. Jesus come into my heart and be my Lord and Saviour of my Life. Take control of my life. Jesus Name Amen
Love in Christ
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